Every Day Seems A Little Longer...

The last several days I have thought back over how things have been over the last years, and I have come to realize something that perhaps I (and maybe many of you) have taken for granted.

I became spoiled I guess would be the word, in that I just assumed I would get a spanking whenever I needed/wanted it. I guess this assumption came from that I always did. Whether my mood indicated it. Whether I teased my boyfriend enough. That we both love it as part of sex play too.

We have no neighbors to worry about noise or nudity over. We don't have any kids to worry about. We have a dresser full of spanking toys, several that he has made himself.

Spankings were always "there" to be had.

Mike not being in the mood has made me realize that this is not the case, for I remain unspanked.

It has also got me wondering about what it must be like for the one doing the spanking. I have realized, it must be a lot of work.

You guys (meaning that do the spanking), it really isn't as easy as just swinging your arm and connecting hand or other object to a willing ass is it? There is quite an onus on you to deliver the spanking that is needed, to know how it is needed, to make sure you give the amount that is needed, know when to stop. I mean you can't always get what you need to know by the reaction of the one being spanked. There are times when she/he may not even know themself, and it is up to you. And, as I have found out now, you have to be in the mood to do the spanking.

You all that do the spanking, what other things do you find yourself having to do? Am I right about it not being so easy and simple? Do any of you feel that sometimes you are taken for granted and that you will simply stop to give a spanking whenever the spankee feels or needs one?

Those of you that are the ones getting the spankings, do you too sometimes find that you expect your mate to spank you whenever you feel like you need or want one? That you take for granted that they will always be there to get?

Desperate times?

Perhaps so.

See, I thought for sure I would have gotten a spanking by now, but sadly not and my bottom remains an annoying shade of pale.

It hasn't been for lack of trying. I have not been a very good girl lately.

I have been wearing things a little shorter and tighter

made sure he saw me dressing

making sure to be adjusting my shoe just as he happened by to see me in this

or some other suggestive pose

gotten a little careless with the neckline or hemlines

things that would be getting my panties wet with anticipation because it would also usually stop what he is doing, get his pants tightening in reaction

 

and his hands itching to put me across his lap and give me a good spanking

But not these times and that has been frustrating.

See Mike just hasn't been up for our usual fun. He has been stressed out lately about still not finding permanent and legal work, worried about some expenses and says he just isn't in the mood.

Ironically, these are the things that getting a good spanking would set right (or at least help me put it out of my mind for a while) for me, but it just wont help him at all to do the spanking. Getting spanked provides me the relief from the things that are actually keeping him out of the mood to do the spanking.

I may not completely understand this, but I certainly will try hard not to pressure him into doing anything he just wouldn't be into. I want it to be as much fun for him as me.

Girls (and all those that get the spankings), do you run into this often? your mate just isn't in the mood at times? how have you successfully gotten him in the mood?

Those of you that do the spanking, do you find yourselves just not in the mood for any action? How have you dealt with it and what tips would you have to help us help you?

Do That To Me One More Time...

I re-discovered something that perhaps I had been taking for granted.

Well, maybe not ALL the time, but I am telling you, sick for over a week after it had been over a week since the last one, has made me realize just how much I really need it.

Once I was back on my feet the first thing I wanted was to be right off my feet and thrown across his lap for a damn good long spanking but it hasn't happened yet, but hopefully over this weekend.

I feel like I am going crazy. It is all I can think about. I look at the weirdest things and wonder what it would be like to be spanked with it. I would never act on it, but I am looking at every good looking guy and wondering about the strength of his arms and hands and how his thighs would feel underneath me. I jump at any sound that is even slightly similar to that of a hand or paddle meeting flesh. At work, when sitting down, without even thinking about it, I sometimes find myself squirming in my seat, almost like my bottom is remembering how good it feels like when it is hot and stingy from a good spanking. And the near constant arousal, I have taken to carrying a couple extra panties in my purse just in case.

This is the longest I have gone without a spanking since we started the act and I can tell you, this feels like real withdrawal. Sure most of it is of the mental nature rather than the physical shakes and sweats of drugs withdrawal, but it has left me in no doubt about it. I am addicted to spanking.

Do any of you believe you have an addiction to spanking? Do you find yourself going thru these withdrawallike symptoms if you have gone without for a while?

Those of you that do the spanking, do you feel like you are addicted to it? How does going without spanking for a while affect you?

uncontrollably delayed

I am afraid a proper post will have to be delayed hopefully only a couple more days.

See I have spent the last couple days in bed, and not the fun kind

but rather the stay home from work and sleep all the time kind

and Ii best be getting back to bed before i get spanked for being up and about
so i will be back soon, have a great weekend

Let Us Not Forget

If you asked anybody that has been in the same relationship for a while what the one thing they worry about it, it is almost always the same answer. Falling into a rut.

It is a perfectly understandable concern. You spend enough time with the same person and things are bound to end up falling into the same routine if you let it.

So how do we keep this from happening.

Well many start trying new different things.


new positions

Fooling around in public where there is a risk of being caught

maybe adding a partner

perhaps a little bondage

and of course probably what most are familiar with, a little role playing

whether its a football player and cheerleader

and for some that are into spanking play, perhaps a naughty schoolgirl and the principal

a sloppy maid and the manor lord

even something silly like a naughty jeanie

role play is a fun and sexy way to act out fantasies and provide variety that keeps things from becoming too routine

We have to be careful though. You see while role playing is a lot of fun, let us not forget that it is when we are pretending to be people that we are not. If we do this too often think about what it is saying about the relationship we are in. That we would rather be other people. This can be as unhealthy for a couple as being stuck in a rut.

So don't lose prospective, but still have fun.

How many of you role play? How often? and have you sometimes found yourselves thinking perhaps you are doing it too much?

Hot Town, Summer in the City...

Well one thing I noticed when we got back from visiting my parents is that summer is definitely approaching.

The turn to very warm weather always brings the sure signs that summer is around the corner.

Those construction hunks are peeling off shirts to show off that muscular physique.

And of course girls' clothes are getting shorter and tighter

and those are the good girls (or at least appear to be)

The naughtier minxes are always trying to push the edge and go further

whether its almost belt sized skirts

or ridiculously short shorts

some girls sure play up the exhibitionism and teasing

even to the point of not seeming to care what the wind can show

I can tell you what I know. None of these girls have very assertive boyfriends or lovers.

Because I know that you readers out there would not hesitate to take your girlfriends over your lap for such wanton and flirtatious behavior

or over the couch/chair for a dose of the paddle

And after such a deserved spanking we would be told that if we want to wear such revealing clothes, then we can show off a red bottom as well. Because you can clearly see from the last pictures, it would be quite noticeable indeed given the skimpiness of the previously shown clothes.

So girls, beware. If you are going to dress like that, be prepared to show off more than you expected.

Am I right or what?

sorry

We are at my parents' house for a few more days but I will be back here soon.

If They Only Knew...

If there is one thing that I would bet nearly all if not all people have had a fantasy about it would be the teacher.

Who has not had a crush of some sort over one (or more of their teachers). I am sure everyone can even still remember his/her name.

Seeing that pretty teacher at the front of the class, imagining her in all kinds of sexy attire and attitude

that handsome older man appearing so authoritative and stern

I wonder how many though realize what the teachers have to go through every day what they have think about sitting there at the desk

Well, if you think the students had fantasies, I can tell you, it is nothing compared to those of the teacher. So many can run thru her head.

Giving the football team quarterback some extra help after school

Having that teasing co-ed stay after class for some extracurricular activity.

Getting the very fit gym coach to give some personal physical education

Having a very special teachers meeting with both the pretty music teacher and that handsome history teacher at the same time

You get the idea. But, if that wasn't enough, then there are the more kinky teachers with even more fantasies going on.

Taking that naughty minx that has been showing off her legs and flashing her panties and teaching her a lesson in proper behavior

Thinking about that stern principal perhaps disappointed with her performance

Spanked by the groundskeeper with those large strong hands, for picking the flowers

Is it any wonder that she has to carry an extra pair of panties with her

and can be seen going into the faculty bathroom a bit more often than necessary.

Well, I can tell you that it can be like this for teachers. I should know.

Afterall, I am one.

What's Up Doc?

I was waiting in the doctor's office for a routine exam. You know how that goes. You make sure you get there a little early but still need to wait an hour. But, if you get there a few minutes late, they make you pay for it by waiting 2. Anyways, I got to thinking about what happened a couple years ago.

It happened on my birthday (well technically it was the day after because we both had to work on my birthday). It was a super fun day with a great party that night. I had gotten my birthday spanking of course and a while later, I got one of my private presents. It was one of Mike's old belts and he had cut the last foot or so of it into ten thin strands. So I had gotten another birthday spanking with that. Then before the party, also got a beautiful cane, I think it's called mallacca or something? I will have to remember to look it up. Anyways, I got ANOTHER birthday spanking with that ( I know, I know, I tend to call it all spanking rather than differentiate between caning, tawsing etc).

The party later was great. Dancing, loud music, public presents, but I drank wayyyyyyyyy too much. Way after the party at about 4am (still pretty drunk), I stumbled getting out of bed and into the bathroom and twisted my ankle bad. Mike played football so being used to this type of injury, he got up and iced it and elevated it, but it still swelled up like a balloon.

A few hours later we decided to go to the doctor worried that the injury may be severe. I really like my doctor. He is a very kind man of I think 60 now in a small practice. His wife, a couple years younger, is his nurse. Both of them wonderful people. The doc saw me quickly and Lisa (his wife the nurse) had me change into a gown. (no idea why as it was for my ankle, but I didn't question it). I did so and sat up on the HARD exam table.

By the time the doc and nurse came in, I was squirming around trying to find a comfortable way to sit/lean. The doc pronounced that I had a bad sprain, but then he noticed my squirming.

Without hesitation, at the same time he says, "I'm worried, you may have hurt your back or hip in the fall", he also half turns me and tips me over with the gown parting and then they both go silent. Upon seeing my bottom, Lisa said "THAT did NOT come from a fall", referring to all the marks, of course.

Soooooo, I had some explaining to do. Then they went and talked to Mike, I guess to make sure our stories matched, and thats how they came to find out what Mike and I get up to.

It's nice not having to worry about marks when going to the doctor. And just as I expected, as usual, this time when I was being checked out, Lisa asked if I had been good lately and we have a laugh about it.

How many of you have doctors that know what you get up to? Do any of worry about marks then? For those of you that do the spanking, is it something you worry about too?

.. And She Passed By In Painted On Jeans

What you guys out there might not know is that we girls have a few pairs of jeans in our wardrobe that we like to wear when the mood strikes us.

These aren't ordinary jeans, not by a long shot... these are the "painted on jeans", you sometimes hear referred to in some songs.

These jeans are not for a time of water retention or after those 2 or 3 holiday pounds that accrued by January. No, they are hard enough to get on in the best of times.

They require a shimmying shuffle and laying back on the bed and all kinds of contortions before they are up over the hips and secured in place.

Regular style panties with these jeans are a bit silly to try to wear, they just gonna end up wedged in and all out of place and the lines will show. So it is a thong or nothing basically.

Why do we go thru this, well, as with any attire we usually pick out, it makes us feel sexy, confident, and of course, we dress to look good for you guys out there. We know how it makes our butts and legs look

especially when some heels are added.

Now, for any other girl out and about with friends or her boyfriend, it would be an ordinary time.

However, with a couple who like things a bit spicier and well, kinkier, these jeans become like waving a flag in front of a bull. It doesn't take long before you guys get that itching palm look in your eyes. And quite frankly, we like it. It isn't long before we make sure we put a little extra sway in the hips, bend over a bit more often than necessary, get a bit more teasing and sassy.

Believe me, when we are tugging pulling and bending to get these on, we know that a spanking is coming our way, the only question is how long you guys can take it til you just have to give it.

The problem comes when you guys get so impatient and frustrated that you don't take time to get them down or off, and trust me without her cooperation, that aint gonna happen.

So, in your hurry, you get her over your lap and try to start spanking.

My boyfriend is the first to admit that that is a big mistake. He says its like trying to spank iron. With already skin tight jeans stretched even further bent over, your hand is gonna get a hellofa lot sorer than her butt is going to get.

So then you think you will just reach for a paddle or brush or cane, etc to do the job.

I think we all have seen what happens then. Sure she will feel it and you might get some pretty good reaction, but very shortly you just end up like this

breaking perhaps her and your favorite toys.

So, guys do you both a favor and do whatever needs to get done to get those tight jeans down/off
and do a proper job of the spanking.

Sure, it will take a lot more effort, but don't worry, your hard work will be well rewarded.

and that is what she has been looking forward to when she first reached for those skin tight jeans to struggle into in the first place