I am all for finding ways to make things easier. But, let's face it. When it comes to a good spanking, surely there is nothing like putting in the extra effort, right?
I know that one of the biggest turn-ons for me, one of the things that just makes me melt is having my man in charge. Knowing that I am over his lap/across that bed/etc. until he decides that I have had enough.
I trust him completely. For me every spank, every hot sting of his flesh (or of course some toy/tool) against mine just seems to show me his love, care, dominance, and turns me into a writhing cauldron of lust wanting so desperately for it to end yet hoping like hell it doesn't.
I don't want to know that I will be spanked according to a chart. I want to know that I will be spanked until he is satisfied.
Of course, this isn't the only aspect of the experience that I love, but, I do think it is a good part of it. (It is a cute sexy picture though.)
Do you feel the same? Or does that really matter for you?
For you that do the spanking, how do you feel about setting an amount/length/etc? Do you start with something like that in mind? Or do you just see how it goes as it goes along?
Ah the naughty devil fantasies that come to mind with this darling's fabulous fanny! This would be an amusing excuse to spank the dear darling whenever the suggestion of painting comes up. First have to lift up her skirt to see if the previous spanking has faded and if so, then she must have a refresher spanking there in the paint aisle to get just the right shade to match the samples to see what shade looks best on her behind! Now I'm going to have a silly smile and start feeling aroused walking past the paint aisle and it's all your fault Amber! Tell Mike so he give you a lovely shade of red spanking this instant but keep up the tease please! ND =;)
ReplyDeleteWe have seen the paint chip pix before and thought it was playful. I have spanked to match red panties many times and this was just a variation. I can imagine showing it to her pointing out the current color, before proceeding to the next one.
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ReplyDeleteit has been a while since I was minded to make a jotting but not because you were neglected by a most ardent and chronic 'fan'
however apart from saying thanks again for your unending efforts on our behalf for delectation and general drooling I must thank you for the shading sample - inspired
so it has been printed out, necessarily touched up because of the sloppy bra label what's with these things, sometimes on pants they are nearly larger than the garment
so several of these are now framed in the 'naughty girls room' note no apostrophe so there must be more than one . . .
thanks
J
I'm in total agreement with you amber. I like my SO to punish my bottom until he's convinced that I've learnt my lesson and my bum looks properly spanked!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for the wait. So much real life gets in the way
ReplyDeleteND, I am glad you liked it. It is a cute teasing picture and I do like the way you think ;)
OurBottomBurns, I think Mike is the same way. Red dress, shorts, panties, just seem to scream at him to make the colors match lol
J, I am glad you liked it. It is I who that has been absent tho I have so tried to post more frequently. I just will have to try harder.
Janice, I know... I love that he is the one that decides when a spanking is done and that I can promise all kinds of things, but every spank that he thinks I deserve will be delivered :)