Vive le Différence

Until not so very long ago, the myth was that most girls were not sexual. Did not have the same desires as guys. Were not capable of arousal and sex was an unorgasmic chore to keep their men happy.

Thankfully, that is no longer the beliefs. We want and need sex just as much as guys. We have desires, lusts, needs that most of us are now comfortable seeking to satisfy.

We do seem to go about it a little differently than guys. Examples, we like porn just as much but we tend to want there to be a bit of seduction and romance in it. We tend to gravitate towards erotic readings like Elizabeth's books rather than Hustler and Penthouse. While we may not be as obvious in it as guys, we are checking them out at the construction sites and the pools just as much as they are us.

When alone and arousal needs to be quenched, we too take matters into our own hands and this too is done a bit differently.

While some can get right to it, most girls most of the time need to have things just so to be able to achieve the relief needed.

Like taking a nice soak in a hot bath to relax

maybe slipping into something sexy

turn on some soft music, light some incense and candles

select the toy of the evening

making sure she has the batteries

then lay on the bed to  begin the vibrator stimulation and focus on the fantasies that will play thru her imagination

like the rugged warrior that came to her rescue after capture

                                                     (photo contributed by J)


that hot new neighbor that just moved in

or if she is one that likes things to be a bit spicier: her handsome boss spanking her for repeated personal phone calls

the mailman putting an end to her teasing him daily

or maybe herself being the one to deal with a catty coworker

until finally with a whimper or a roar, the waves crash and release is reached

Things are quite a bit simpler, easier, faster for the guys.

He might be looking out the window and quite naturally gets very excited watching his neighbor and her friend having some fun in the sun in the back yard

or perhaps those college girls across the way left their apartment curtains open and he watches them settling a disagreement

being quite turned on, he takes off his jeans and strokes his demanding erecton

a few minutes later he grunts and shoots

and then goes back to his football game

Of course, I am exaggerating slightly, but the difference here is pretty clear.

I thought it might be interesting if you all told what sorts of differences in sexual matters between the sexes have you observed and experienced?