Thursday, 3 January 2013

parents today - what are you gonna do with them

This recent Christmas visit with my parents reminded me of how my boyfriend and I managed to "convert" my parents.

A few years ago, my parents were due to spend 4 days and 3 nights visiting us. We have a decent house, but the walls between the adjoining bedrooms were way too thin if you know what I mean.

Mike had been working extra nights so that he could take the time off and as a result he had been just too tired for fun.

Mom and dad got to our place and were tired from over a day of driving so the first day was spent just pretty much talking and such.

The next morning, mom and I were making breakfast and Mike and dad were watching the news. I was getting Mike a cup of coffee when I decided to add a lot of sugar to his mug. I mean a LOT. As I was stirring it, I saw my mom watching and giving me this shocked look. Mike took a big swig and immediately spit it out in the sink while giving me a look that said if they werent there, I'd be in big trouble. Mom just watched without saying anything.

That night we were in bed and it was late and I was wishing we could have some fun but the bed was too noisy and the walls too thin. That's when I got a great idea. Mike and I took the mattress off the bed and put it on the floor and if we were quiet we could have some sex.

Well it seemed to be working great. I was on top and guess I had my eyes closed or was leaned over but I didn't see what Mike was doing. Next thing I knew, I felt and heard this extremely loud (in the silence of the late night anyways) WHACK and sting and I let out a yell. Mike had reached under the bed and got one of my hard sandals and whacked me on the ass with it.

Needless to say, the action halted immediately. That morning, I went to the kitchen expecting mom to have already started breakfast and that I would help her. Instead, I saw mom and dad talking quietly at the table and then dad left for the living room. Mom had this serious look on her face and she said to me not to talk and just listen.

She said she and dad knew that Mike beats me and that they are taking me right then to go down to the sheriff's office to have him arrested. I was in shock as she was telling me it's not my fault and that she had talked dad out of killing Mike.

Finally, I got my voice and started to deny it and she says they heard the whole thing when he hit me. I was still trying to find how to convince her that she was wrong, when she started looking at my arms and face and then she actually opened up my robe. She was looking for signs of abuse!!

I got a hold of her arms and stopped her examination and sat her down and said we needed to talk. I then explained to her about how I am not beaten, we play spanking "games" and other such things and we both like it. She was NOT easy to convince and I even had to show her the shoe print on my ass!! After a long time she started to understand and even said something like "so thats why you put all that sugar in his coffee". Well, as embarrassing as our discussion was, she then said she would have to explain all this to my dad. I didn't want to go thru it again so I hid in the bedroom with Mike.

Eventually, we had to come out tho, and it was a pretty awkward day!

The next day was a little better. We did tourist stuff. The surprise came that evening when we got ready to watch a dvd that we rented on the way home.

I was making popcorn and mom was making and pouring some iced tea. I watched her add a ton of salt to my dad's glass and stir it up. I just watched in amazement as she handed it to my dad who took a sip and spat it all over himself. I think I was too amazed to laugh but not my mom. She was cracking up so much I thought she was gonna hurt herself.

Dad headed for the kitchen to , I presume, rinses his mouth and probably guzzle some water. But, just after he passed mom still standing there and laughing, he paused for a second and turned and gave my mom a very hard spank!! Well, we all froze in place while the two of them just looked at each other. I don't know how long it really was, seemed like minutes but was probably seconds. No said anything about it and we watched the movie and went to bed.

I know you are saying to yourself that so what, they may just have started to have a little slap and tickle fun. However, there is more to this story.

We went to visit them that Christmas and we brought our two large dogs with us. The plan was to have a lovely early dinner and then Mike and I would take the dogs for their walk.

Well, we had dinner and mom wouldn't let us help clean up so we put leashes on the dogs and took them for a walk. We had gone a little ways down the sidewalk when we realized we didn't know what the dog walking ordinances were there and if we needed poop bags and a scooper even tho it was a rural area. We went back into the house and as soon as we opened the front door, we heard some very no-nonsense spanking come from somewhere in the house. Needless to say, we shut the door quietly and got away as quick as we could not caring about the ordinances.

We never talked about it anymore with my parents, and I was just fine with that.

However, it seemed like this visit, my mom especially, seemed like she was trying to get us to. She asked me things like have I been a good girl, whether the school I teach at allows paddling, hinted that my dad might have gotten some leather toy, and was saying other stuff that got me thinking that she might want to talk about spanking and stuff.

I got to wondering maybe she has came across this site. It would be immediately obvious to her who I am. If this is so, mom, I know I have said that I can talk openly and honestly about these things, but, I am just not ready to with you and Dad.

Do any of you all talk with family about such matters and perhaps found that they were into spanking too? Are any of you comfortable with it and just how much do you get into?


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  2. have to show this to my wife. I'm taking this as a true story, I am really intrigued.

    My parents are long dead, my father was born in 1875 and my mother in 1900. I have often wondered where my spanking predilection came from, perhaps it was them? My father kept a couple of carriage whips hung in the wardrobe in their bedroom (I never thought that significant until recently, as he was brought up with horse and carriage transport), and my mother was very sensitive about such things as corporal punishment in films. I wonder if this was because she felt it was a sexual turn-on and was consequently uncomfortable in my presence?

  3. Fascinating account Amber. I think what it shows it that TTWD is not such a stretch from what many other people would enjoy, if only they were introduced to it in the right way. Thanks for sharing.

    Karl Friedrich Gauss

  4. I grew up with mom spanking me and my sisters through high school and college, till we moved out after college. We knew all along that dad spanked mom once or twice a week and that it was consensual, and that he used the birch, a paddle with holes, a strap and the cane. When I got into a serious relationship, got engaged and then married it was obvious to me that he should spank me regularly. We got and he uses the same implements that dad uses on mom. Now we talk about it quite openly with my parents when we visit them, and think it's quite normal when mom or I or one of my sisters gets spanked during the visits. Over xsmas and new year's it seemed like not a day went by when one of us women didn't get thoroughly spanked! It's no big deal at all, what we talk about are the sexual arousal that follows, implements and frequency. With his family we need to be more cautious, when I need to be spanked we either drive to a secluded place or go to a motel for part of an afternoon. They are not shocked when they hear us having sex but spanking ...they may not be ready for it, and this should be respected. Your note is food for thought, for it is of course possible that we are unnecesssarily cautious! Could it be that your dad has been spanking your mom all along, or did he recently begin doing it? If it's a recent thing then one would like to know how spanking gets introduced into an old established marriage!?

    All power to your parents! Regards Beth


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    gosh, well thank you, Amber, for sharing that with us

    yes one must be careful of the feelings of others and galloping misunderstanding that can arise too - of course we, in England, find the idea of being taken to the Sheriff as hilarious as we assocate that with old black and white American films of the Wild West

    i'm sure this will trigger off many memories for people of 'interesting' events and they may care to share with us - i'll scratch my head and come back on this

    ayh, i do remeber staying at Dolphin Square in London, the building, very fine, had partly been taken over by a chap called 'de Gaulle' at the time of the Free French movement WW II era - my visit of course was many years later

    well it was a big apartment and we did not imagine, in an old solid building of this sort anyone could hear what we were up to but suddenly we became aware of heavy protest bangings on the wall next door - we just froze, then laughed, very quietely

    at breakfast we were convinced we were at the centre of curious glances, on reflection probably envious . . .


  6. Welcome, Malcom. Yes, this indeed happened. I would not be surprised a bit if your parents did not have a bit of fun since the wardrobe would seem a bit odd place to hang his whips and your mom's sensitivity to viewing such activity. Do let us know what your wife thought of reading this, please.

    Welcome, Karl. I agree completely. I think many would enjoy not only spanking but other activities as well if they just would give it a try. Hmm. I think I feel a post about this coming up.

    Welcome, beth. I do hope you will be a regular poster here (you too, Malcom and Karl, of course) :) Thank you for telling us about your experiences with your family. I think it is AWESOME that your family shares a closeness that enables you to discuss things so openly and that there is no problem with anyone being spanked when the need arises during such visits.

    While plausible, I do think it is very highly unlikely that my dad spanked my mom before their visit a few years ago. Two things make me say this. My brother and I were never spanked, so the degree of care that they would have had to have over the years of never once letting something like a paddle or tawse or anything left around, or mom showing any discomfort, just seems unlikely. And second, they were SO hard to convince that we just enjoyed spanking and that I was not being "beaten".

    Ah, yes J. We too have gotten the annoyed bang on a wall when we have stayed at a motel or a couple times at a b&b thinking that we were not being overheard. And especially at the b&b was the next day a bit awkward. I think you are right, some were looking enviously. Fortunately things like noise and nudity are no trouble where we live what with the nearest neighbor about a half mile away ;) .Thanks for telling us about that.

    Anyone else have experiences with family to relate?