Tuesday, 1 May 2012

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways

Reading my own blog is something I hardly ever get the time to do, but a couple of days ago I did just that. Bad and immodest girl that I am I did rather enjoy it, and thought I would give you a couple of my early posts over the next few weeks.

Here’s one I thought you might enjoy.

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways

The immortal words of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, but for those of us whose relationship with our lovers is darker and more erotically charged, maybe the words should be "How do I spank thee, let me count the ways......"

I hadn't planned it that way, but when I posted illustrations from three book jackets last week, l had not deliberately planned to give the three main variations of exposure for punishment, knickers down, knickers off, and naked. Yes of course, the possible permutations go way further than this, but it’s worth while concentrating on these three for the moment. First, let’s look at the quintessential naughty girl spanking, across the knee, skirt up and knickers down.

Nothing could make it more clear to the poor girl that she's about to pay the price for her misbehaviour than finding herself in this position. Across the knee is demeaning enough on its own, skirt up is shaming beyond bearing, but with her panties half way down her thighs she knows there's no hope. Not only is her bottom bare and unprotected against the horny hand about to spank some obedience back in to her, but all her adult credibility has been shrugged out of the way along with her panties. No matter how grown up and sophisticated she is otherwise, in this position she is no more than just a naughty girl in need of a lesson. Nothing could be more undignified than to be held captive to his will in this way, and if he can get away with removing all vestiges of her dignity by taking down her knickers and spanking her, in real terms there's nothing he can't do.

And of course, for him there's an added advantage of having her clothing positioned in this way. Between her upturned skirt and lowered panties her pert little bottom is perfectly framed and centre stage for all his punitive attentions.

Moving on to panties off, then the psychology is similar but subtly different.

“You won't be needing these for a while young lady!" Is a coded message, and it's that her punishment is going to last far longer than she anticipated, even in her worst nightmares. She's going to be spanked across his knee for so long that she might as well forget all about panties for a good long while. The other part of the message is that when he does finally let her up, then he has other plans for her, and that for those she most certainly won’t be needing panties either! At least no matter how much it hurts there’s something to look forward to at the end! The final factor in this equation is a subtle sadism, and that is that when he has finished both punishing and pleasuring her, he is in possession of her panties and very politely and diffidently she will be forced to ask for them back.

And then naked!

Whether a girl takes off her clothes voluntarily to flaunt her sexuality, or has then taken off so she can be punished, the fact that she is undressed and available can't help but excite the man (or woman) whose eye is pleasured by the sight of her curves and swells and crevices. For him to take her nakedness across his knee is compounding the situation. All the arousal that arises from giving a pretty girl a spanking that we've obsessed over time and again in this blog, added to the excitement of having her naked body at his mercy is joined together in a virulent cocktail. Arguably it is less undignified to be spanked naked than with your knickers down, but that is countered by the both the sexual implications of what’s happening and your total availability to anything he wants to do taking a more predominant role.


  1. Liz,

    Well said. All three are very arousing, the first emphasizes the pure humiliation of the girl's position with panties down. In the last photo, the vulnerability of the naked girl is very hot.

    Thank you Liz.

  2. Perhaps the question should be which is more humiliating for the naughty girl in question, having her knickers taken down, or be told to "take down your knickers"

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  4. An excellent look at the 3 basic forms of preparation, Liz.

    I think an additional element to the thrill of the feeling of naughtiness/shame/humiliation etc would be if the participants were in formal attire, especially in the panties on or off scenes. The contrast of being dressed like a sexy seductive lady perhaps attending a formal party or dance or some event and being accross the lap of her man as he is dressed in suit and tie, and spanked like a naughty girl would be particularly exciting.

    I think Sir Stephen has raised a good point.

    All of Liz's readers (and you too Liz), should engage in at least 2 spankings over the next few days. One where you tell her (or are told to) to remove her own panties and then one where you take them off (or have have them taken off) her, and report back on the differences you observe between the 2. :D

    amber xxx

  5. Stop it will you! I can feel a good dozen ideas taking shape in my mind for new posts based on all of this, and there are only so many hours in a day.

    Let's see what I can come up with.